I went to get some butter, because I need it to make biscuits.
An old fellow was in front of me, paying for his things, which came to about £12.
He handed the man behind the counter a £20 note and said “That’s all I’ve got, sorry mate”
His use of “mate” really struck me. I saw then, I imagined, him as a younger man. As a guy who would actually use the word mate as part of his everyday language. It was unexpected because I didn’t associate that kind of language with the older generation.
And I saw him as an equal. There exists all of these barriers that are completely illusional. To me, to everyone, he looks like an old man. But he is simply a man, a person, who has grown old. We are the same.
